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By Douglas Vandergraph https:\/\/douglasvandergraph.com\/ <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lakeland has plenty of reasons to be proud of the people who show up with food and a friendly word. The season ahead will bring special Thanksgiving deliveries, but a more ordinary calendar tells a story that deserves just as much attention.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Volunteers in Service to the Elderly, known as VISTE, is seeking more help for its regular Hot Meals and Supplemental Groceries programs. The need does not disappear when Thanksgiving is over. A grocery bag still has to reach a doorstep on an uneventful Thursday, and an older neighbor may still spend much of the week waiting for another human voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is where the difference between seasonal generosity and lasting neighborliness becomes clear. A holiday volunteer day can be memorable. Dependable help requires something less dramatic: arranging a schedule, learning a route, noticing a familiar face, and doing the work again when there is no special occasion to mark it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no need to diminish big community celebrations. They introduce people to a cause, bring friends together, and remind us that generosity can be joyful. But the greatest gift of such an occasion may be the volunteer who decides to return during an ordinary week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Christian faith has taught me to understand care as a responsibility to the person in front of us, not a performance for an audience. That principle can belong in a shared civic conversation without requiring every neighbor to believe the same thing. A reliable ride, a warm lunch, and a respectful conversation are meaningful to people of every background.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Volunteering is not possible for every household. Some people are themselves stretched by work, caregiving, health, or money worries. A community should not shame them for that. There are other ways to contribute: asking an organization what it needs, helping a neighbor find transportation, checking on someone living alone, or sharing accurate information with a person who may not use the internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The people receiving assistance should also have the dignity of choice. We can listen before assuming what an older adult needs. We can respect their independence, learn their preferences, and remember that they have a lifetime of experience to offer in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lakeland’s challenge is not merely to find enough volunteers for one beautiful day. It is to make sure there is still someone willing to knock next Tuesday. That steady, uncelebrated faithfulness is what turns a good holiday into a community that cares all year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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